Why putting yourself first, means you come last

Why it’s rare to achieve personal gain over a sustained period by doing a disservice to others.

It’s not about you

“The best way to find yourself is to lose yourself in the service of others.” – Mahatma Gandhi

Many of us are too wrapped up in ourselves to notice what’s happening. We look at the world through ‘me-tinted’ glasses.
How does this affect me? What’s in it for me? What about me?